Whispers of the Soul by Nadia Nizam

 خدارا ﻟﻮﮔﻮﮞ ﮐﮯ ﮔﮭﺮﻭﮞ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺍﻧﺪﮬﮯ ﺑﻦ ﮐﺮ ﺟﺎﻭ ﺍﻭﺭ ﻭﮨﺎﮞ ﺳﮯ ﮔﻮﻧﮕﺎ ﺑﻦ ﮐﺮ ﻧﮑﻠﻮ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺳﮩﯿﻠﯽ ﻧﮯ ﺩﻭﺳﺮﯼﺳﮩﯿﻠﯽ ﺳﮯ ﭘﻮﭼﮭﺎ ﺑﭽﮧ ﭘﯿﺪﺍ ﮨﻮﻧﮯ ﮐﯽ ﺧﻮﺷﯽ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺗﻤﮩﺎﺭﮮﺷﻮﮨﺮ ﻧﮯ ﺗﻤﮩﯿﮟ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺗﺤﻔﮧ ﺩﯾﺎ ؟؟؟ ﺳﮩﯿﻠﯽ ﻧﮯ ﮐﮩﺎ ﮐﭽﮫ ﺑﮭﯽﻧﮩﯿﮟ!!!! ﺍﺱ ﻧﮯ ﺳﻮﺍﻝ ﮐﺮﺗﮯ ﮨﻮﺋﮯ ﭘﻮﭼﮭﺎ ﮐﮧ ﮐﯿﺎ ﯾﮧﺍﭼﮭﯽ ﺑﺎﺕ ﮨﮯ؟؟؟ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺍﺱ ﮐﯽ ﻧﻈﺮ ﻣﯿﮟﺗﻤﮩﺎﺭﯼ ﮐﻮﺋﯽ ﻗﯿﻤﺖ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ؟؟؟ ﻟﻔﻈﻮﮞ ﮐﺎ ﯾﮧ ﺯﮨﺮﯾﻼ ﺑﻢ ﮔﺮﺍﮐﺮ ﻭﮦ ﺳﮩﯿﻠﯽ ﺩﻭﺳﺮﯼ ﺳﮩﯿﻠﯽ ﮐﻮ ﺍﭘﻨﯽ ﻓﮑﺮ ﻣﯿﮟ ﻏﻠﻄﺎﮞ ﻭ ﭘﯿﭽﺎﮞ ﭼﮭﻮﮌ ﮐﺮ ﭼﻠﺘﯽ ﺑﻨﯽ!!!! ﺗﮭﻮﮌﯼ ﺩﯾﺮﺑﻌﺪ ﻇﮩﺮ ﮐﮯ ﻭﻗﺖ ﺍﺱ ﮐﺎﺷﻮﮨﺮ ﮔﮭﺮ ﺁﯾﺎﺍﻭﺭ ﺑﯿﻮﯼﮐﺎ ﻣﻨﮧ ﻟﭩﮑﺎ ﮨﻮﺍﭘﺎﯾﺎ، ﭘﮭﺮﺩﻭﻧﻮﮞﮐﺎ ﺟﮭﮕﮍﺍ ﮨﻮﺍﺍﯾﮏ ﺩﻭﺳﺮﮮ ﮐﻮ ﻟﻌﻨﺖ ﺑﮭﯿﺠﯽ ﻣﺎﺭﭘﯿﭧ ﮨﻮﺋﯽﺷﻮﮨﺮ ﻧﮯ ﺍﺳﮯ ﻃﻼﻕ ﺩﮮﺩﯼ!!!! ﺟﺎﻧﺘﮯ ﮨﯿﮟ ﭘﺮﺍﺑﻠﻢ ﮐﯽ ﺷﺮﻭﻋﺎﺕ ﮐﮩﺎﮞ ﺳﮯ ﮨﻮﺋﯽ؟؟؟ ﺍﺱ ﻓﻀﻮﻝ ﺟﻤﻠﮯ ﺳﮯﺟﻮ ﺍﺱ ﮐﯽ ﻋﯿﺎﺩﺕ ﮐﺮﻧﮯ ﺁﺋﯽ ﺳﮩﯿﻠﯽ ﻧﮯ ﮐﮩﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ!!!! اسی طرح زید نے حامد سے پوچھا!! تم کہاں کام کرتے ہو؟؟ حامد : فلاں دکان میں!! ماہانہ کتنی تنخواہ دیتاہے؟؟ حامد:18000 روپے!! زید: 18000 روپے بس،تمہاری زندگی کیسے کٹتی ہے اتنے پیسوں میں؟؟ حامد ۔گہری سانس کھینچتے ہوئے ۔ بس یار کیا بتاوں!! میٹنگ ختم ہوئی!! کچھ دنوں کے بعد حامد اب اپنے کام سے بیزار ہوگیا ، اور تنخواہ بڑھانے کی ڈیمانڈ کردی، جسے مالک نے رد کرد...

I once read a beautiful story that left a deep impression on me. Let me share it with you. There was a man in a village named Gama. Whenever he craved something special to eat—especially morning tea and parathas—he would make his way to a few selected homes. Early in the morning, he would stand outside a house and call out to the woman sweeping the courtyard. “O fortunate one! You have worked so hard all your life. A woman like you has never been truly appreciated. This home shines because of you—this is your greatness." Then he would turn to the husband and say, “You are truly blessed to have such a wife." Hearing this, the wife would open the long‑suppressed file of complaints about her husband, while Gama nodded sympathetically, hand on his forehead. Soon after, the woman would wash her hands and ask, “Would you like some tea? Gama would smile and reply, “Only tea? I still remember your parathas—but you look tired today, so don’t trouble yourself."   Wrapped in the sw...

Dear Husbands, Protect your wife from any wicked, jealous, or abusive family members. Protect her dignity. Because your relationship can be a guiding example for your children. Remember, your loyalty to your wife should be unwavering. Stand by her side and ensure that she feels safe and respected. This not only strengthens your bond but also sets a powerful example for your children. They will learn the values of love, respect, and protection by observing how you treat each other. A harmonious home begins with mutual support and understanding. When you shield your wife from negativity, you foster a nurturing environment where love can flourish. This positive atmosphere will profoundly impact your children, teaching them how to build and maintain healthy relationships in their own lives. Ultimately, your marriage is a model for your children. By prioritizing your wife's well-being and defending her against any form of mistreatment, you demonstrate the importance of kindness, empathy...

 In Islam, the rights of a daughter-in-law are based on the general principles of kindness, respect, and justice that apply to all members of the family. Islam teaches that every individual, regardless of their role within the family, should be treated with fairness and compassion. Here are some key rights of a daughter-in-law in Islam: 1. Respect and dignity: A daughter-in-law is entitled to be treated with respect and dignity by her husband, in-laws, and other family members. Islam emphasizes the importance of treating others with kindness and consideration, regardless of their relationship. 2. Kindness and care: Islam encourages husbands and families to show kindness, care, and support to their daughters-in-law. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "The best of you is the one who is best to his wife" (Sunan Ibn Majah). This hadith highlights the importance of treating one's wife, including a daughter-in-law, with kindness and excellence. 3. Protection and pro...

 One day, Aimen approached me, upset and complaining about her friend who had spoken to their teacher about her. As a mother, this deeply pained me, and I couldn't sleep all night. The following day, we had a serious conversation during which I asked her a few questions about her future and the qualities she embodies as a young woman. "Do you aspire to be a confident woman or a victim?" "Do you enjoy hearing negative things about yourself?" "If I were to pass away today, where would you seek sympathy and express your grievances?" Allah has blessed you with eyes and a brain, declaring you to be the best of all creatures. So, when someone approaches you with a story about yourself, you have three options: 1. If it doesn't bother you, you can choose to ignore it and forget about it. This demonstrates strength and resilience. 2. If it does bother you and you decide to confront the person who spoke ill of you, it showcases your confidence and self-belie...

 Marriage is a lot about give and take and sacrifice. It will fail if you start competing with your spouse. It’s not about who’s the stronger person. It’s about who’s willing to compromise and do more to make the other happy. Remember, it’s the little things that go a long way.

 In a world so new, a year unfolds, A precious blessing, our hearts behold. With tiny fingers and curious eyes, A son is born, to our surprise. One year has passed since you came to be, A radiant light, filled with glee. From your first smile to your babbling voice, Each moment with you, we rejoice. Your laughter, like music, fills the air, A symphony of joy beyond compare. With every step, you explore and learn, Your little heart, forever yearn. From crawling to walking, you've grown so fast, Leaving footprints of love, a memory to last. Your innocence, a beacon, pure and bright, Guiding us through the darkest night. With every challenge, you persevere, A testament to strength, so crystal clear. You teach us patience, compassion, and grace, A tiny soul, with a shining face. In your eyes, we see a future so bright, A world of possibilities, vast and wide. We'll nurture your dreams, help them take flight, And be there for you, both day and night. Happy birthday, my little one, A...

A few days back, someone visited me, and after that person left, I realized the most painful thing was dealing with a case of suspected dual personality disorder. Literally, I had to take a break from my routine life and relax, as it was one of the most challenging times to witness someone in so much emotional turmoil. The person seemed unaware that their life was being heavily influenced by past trauma, as they were still living in the past and had let it ruin their present and jeopardize their future. They constantly compared themselves to others, including their parents, siblings, life partner, children, and friends. Each discussion would start in a normal way but would devolve into a recitation of their struggles, their perceived best qualities, their character, and their suffering. It was distressing to imagine the person's family going through the worst of this situation every day due to the person's evident narcissistic personality disorder. The way they were ruining the...

Do you genuinely love your wife? I know you may instinctively answer "yes," but that is not the ultimate question. The real question is: does your wife truly feel loved? Take a moment to reflect on this and set aside your immediate response. When a woman genuinely feels loved, it becomes evident through various indicators. The signs manifest in her words and actions. She blushes at the mere mention of her partner. It's rare for her to engage in a conversation without mentioning him. She experiences a rush of emotions, even goosebumps, when she sees or holds him. Her love for him surpasses any other affection she may have. She eagerly seeks his company whenever she needs to talk and feels completely secure in his presence. When a woman genuinely feels loved, she willingly and wholeheartedly supports her husband. She treats him with respect and admiration, without feeling like a servant. She carries herself with the grace of a queen, yet without any trace of arrogance. She ...

 As I continue to grow older, I have come to realize that the length of time someone has known me is not as significant as how they make me feel. It is about finding those who truly see me, hear me, understand me, appreciate me, support me, and love me. In the past, I have wasted months and even years of my life giving myself to individuals who were nothing more than empty shells disguising themselves as human beings. I poured my heart and soul into them, naively hoping that by doing so, they would become whole. However, all they did was eagerly take from me, leaving me drained with dark circles under my eyes, while they fed off the love that flowed from my veins. I have reached a point where I refuse to be a host to soulless individuals any longer. I am now selective in who I choose to forgive and for what reasons. I am not a cold-hearted person who is intolerant of remorse. However, I have come to understand that there are two types of people: those who genuinely feel sorry for t...