Whispers of the Soul by Nadia Nizam

  One Missed Call… And a Lifetime of Truth The Mirror Our Children Hold Up Yesterday, someone from our extended family called after decades of silence. At the time, my daughter was using my phone, so I remained unaware. Today, when I noticed the missed call and asked her about it, she replied calmly: “Mom, I didn’t tell you because I didn’t understand why they would call after so many years. Do they need something? Or is it some very special occasion? People like this don’t call out of love, they call when they need something.” I tried to defend them. I said it might be something important, that perhaps they wanted to say something meaningful, and that she should have answered the call. But her response stopped me in my tracks. “Mom,” she said gently, “I’m sorry if this hurts you, but as long as I can remember, such people reach out only on their own terms, when they need you, when it suits them. And once their need is fulfilled, they disappear. Sometimes they even point out your f...

Have you ever noticed that when someone cannot confront their own faults, they make you the problem instead? It's easier for them to portray you as the villain than to face their mistakes or take responsibility for their failures & actions. By shifting the blame onto you, they create a convenient distraction from the truths they've been avoiding. Recently, a lifelong loser attempted to blame me for his dysfunctional relationship with his sister. Well, my dear, instead of blaming others, take a moment to reflect on your past and present. Your long history of affairs, your friendships, and your troubled relationship with your parents are prime examples of your personality. I don't remember finding myself in any of your dramas. But Yes, Meanwhile, you were wrapped up in your arrogance, intimidating others with your anger. I was focused on building my life and career, working hard to achieve what I have today. So, grow up and mature; try to accept your personal flaws instea...

A Life of Service and Struggle:  "A True Hero Major General Mian Ghulam Jillani" Major General Mian Ghulam Jillani (March 1, 1913 – March 1, 2004) was a prominent figure in Pakistan's history, serving with distinction in the military and navigating a complex political landscape.  His life, marked by both significant contributions and considerable hardship, offers a compelling case study of a tumultuous era in South Asia.  Born into the influential Mian tribe of Baghicha Dheri, a Pashtun family in Sibi, Balochistan, his journey encompassed military service during World War II, key roles in the formation of Pakistan, and a politically turbulent career that ultimately led him to seek asylum in the United States. Personal Life and Family: Mian Ghulam Jillani was one of three sons born to Syed Mehmood Gul (son of Sawab Gul, son of Syed Abdul Wahab) and his first wife.  His full brothers were Mian Ghulam Rabbani (who served as Pakistan's ambassador to Iran, Japan, and Indi...