A Strong Woman



"She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. God is within her; she will not fall. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last, but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.


When people see you as a strong woman, they may assume that you don't need anything or anyone, that you can handle everything and overcome any challenges. They might think that you don't require a listening ear, care, or pampering.


When people see you as a strong woman, they often seek your help in carrying their burdens. They talk to you, assuming that you don't need someone to listen to you.


A strong woman is rarely asked if she is tired, suffering, falling, anxious, or afraid. What matters is that she is always there, like a lighthouse in the fog or a rock in the middle of the sea.


A strong woman is not forgiven for any weaknesses. If she loses control, she is perceived as weak. If she loses her temper, she is labeled as hysterical.


When a strong woman is absent for even a minute, her absence is immediately noticeable. But when she is present, her presence is considered normal.


However, the strength that is required every day to be that kind of woman often goes unnoticed by others.


It is important to honor, recognize, respect, and appreciate the strong women in your life, because they also need support, love, and the ability to rest.


A woman is always the backbone of her family. Her sweat, blood, and tears carve the path for her family. Children are her life, strength, and the boundaries for her success. Wherever she goes, her mind is always focused on her family. Each beat of her heart creates harmony for her family, children, and parents.


A strong woman can resist temptation and refrain from engaging in wrongdoing or having affairs, even if she has been cheated on. She hides her tears, sorrow, and pain and never reveals them. She always tries to conceal what she has sacrificed behind her smiles, in order to appear stronger and more resilient. She finds solace in her moments of solitude, even when she longs for someone to hold her hand and help her achieve her dreams.


Be proud to be strong! Be proud to be more than the majority! Be proud that strength is a characteristic of women! We are mothers, daughters, wives, sisters, and friends. We are all of this and much more! Sometimes, all we need is a kiss, a hug, or to ask for support from our closest friends, mothers, or sisters. And you will be just fine! Because strong women are like superheroes! They are always ready to fight! Blessings to all of you."

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