A Small Person

Recently, I witnessed someone continuously criticizing a mature child, engaging in ridicule and gossip, and mocking him in the presence of servants. They persistently belittled his personality and compared him unfavorably to other children. The child approached me, sharing all the details with a great deal of anguish. I am still deeply shocked by this painful experience and cannot forget the sorrow endured by the child's parents. It reminded me of my own mother's anguish when people used to mock her children. It leaves me wondering how individuals are able to let go of their past.

Like our elders and ancestors, i could just ignore and forget but I would like to address all educated parents and implore them to prioritize the safety and well-being of their children and become their advocates. Do not allow your children to become targets of such individuals within your social circle. These people will continuously undermine you through criticism and comparisons, creating a sense of inadequate parenting and insecurity within the child. I urge you, for the sake of your child, to be there for them and distance yourselves from toxic relationships. Please do not tolerate any relationship that jeopardizes your child's well-being. Remember that ultimately, Allah will hold you accountable for your children, not for the opinions of others.

Now, let me address those who exhibit arrogance and disrespect. Do not forget your own past, the lack of peace in your life, the shortcomings of your own children, and your own insecurities. Remember to respect boundaries and refrain from using the power of family ties to justify your actions. Instead, focus on nurturing your own children and families, rather than engaging in gossip and spreading rumors about other children. Be mindful of God's karma and the consequences it brings. Learn from your past experiences and recognize how God has demonstrated the concept of karma to you. Be mindful of your words, especially when in the presence of children.

I hope this message resonates with you and that you will share it with others in a respectful manner and stop discussing that child. I also hope that it brings solace and empowerment to the child who experienced such pain. May Allah reward him for his obedience and patience. May Allah bless him abundantly with peace and success. And remember I may not be there with sweet tongue and gifts but I will always be there with the feeling of empathy and humanity. I will always be an advocate for a child. You can always count on me my dear.