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A Daughter-in-law Syndrome

 In Islam, the rights of a daughter-in-law are based on the general principles of kindness, respect, and justice that apply to all members of the family. Islam teaches that every individual, regardless of their role within the family, should be treated with fairness and compassion. Here are some key rights of a daughter-in-law in Islam: 1. Respect and dignity: A daughter-in-law is entitled to be treated with respect and dignity by her husband, in-laws, and other family members. Islam emphasizes the importance of treating others with kindness and consideration, regardless of their relationship. 2. Kindness and care: Islam encourages husbands and families to show kindness, care, and support to their daughters-in-law. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "The best of you is the one who is best to his wife" (Sunan Ibn Majah). This hadith highlights the importance of treating one's wife, including a daughter-in-law, with kindness and excellence. 3. Protection and pro...

Being A Mom

 One day, Aimen approached me, upset and complaining about her friend who had spoken to their teacher about her. As a mother, this deeply pained me, and I couldn't sleep all night. The following day, we had a serious conversation during which I asked her a few questions about her future and the qualities she embodies as a young woman. "Do you aspire to be a confident woman or a victim?" "Do you enjoy hearing negative things about yourself?" "If I were to pass away today, where would you seek sympathy and express your grievances?" Allah has blessed you with eyes and a brain, declaring you to be the best of all creatures. So, when someone approaches you with a story about yourself, you have three options: 1. If it doesn't bother you, you can choose to ignore it and forget about it. This demonstrates strength and resilience. 2. If it does bother you and you decide to confront the person who spoke ill of you, it showcases your confidence and self-belie...