To whom it may concern......


It is easy to say "let it go" when you are not the one being dragged through the mud, openly disrespected, and side-eyed. It is even easier to say, "If that were me, I would tell them off," when it does not involve your emotions and life. However, when you feel like no one understands the depth of your issues or the truth amidst a sea of slander, it becomes different. I seriously wonder how many highly intuitive, intelligent, and completely sane women and men have been labeled as crazy simply because they came close to uncovering someone else's deceit.

When you feel like your back is against the wall and you are ready to unleash and push back, don't. Do not stoop to a lower level or give an irrelevant person the impression that their words or actions hold any significance in your life. Do not allow lies about you to create falsehoods within yourself. Be still and know that it may take days, months, or even years, but we all eventually face the consequences of our actions. Stand firmly on the truth of who you are and the facts. You do not need revenge; you need to heal.

@ To those whom it may concern 😟 😨 

I need you to maintain the same level of energy and distance that you comfortably had when I was struggling. I need you to remember all the times I was there for you in your darkest hours and how you turned a blind eye to my world falling apart. I urge you to take ownership of your decision and lack of compassion and remain seated at a distance. I need you to understand that I will never allow those who made me feel insignificant to have a place at this table now that I have found my strength. I promise you, I will never let you back in. I do not make room for insincere individuals, and I do not have time for opportunists. My discernment has sharpened, and my conscience is clear. You chose to detach confidently before everything turned upside down. Stick to your decision. I do not want anything you are offering now.

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